Don’t Allow Yourself To Be Controlled By These 5 Things!

Many people spend their lives at the mercy of circumstances. Living at the mercy of what happens to them. Living at the mercy of other people.

They are not living in the present because they are stuck in their past. At this point, they don’t realize what is being slipped out of their hands – their beautiful present!

IF you want to live a tremendous life, don’t allow yourself to be controlled by these 5 things –

1. Your Past

Don’t allow your past to control your present or future life. Learn to let go of your past. Leave the pain of your past behind, so it can not ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind, so it can not block the light of your bright future.

Whatever happened, whether unjust, cruel or harsh, reliving the events will never do any good to you. It will only bring you pain. Your past is gone, so let it be the past.

If someone did something wrong to you, the only way you can win is by letting it go and move on. If you live in hate, they win. If you live in the victim story, they win. If YOU want to win, you must focus on building your future, and that should be done right now.

Release that weight of the past from your shoulders so you can be free to live in a present. Don’t allow events of the past, which are now gone, to ruin this moment.

2. Other people’s opinion

Don’t allow other people’s opinion and judgments to control the direction of your life. If you feel the need to fit in and wanted, you might travel down paths you don’t actually want to travel.

Remember, people pleasing is a curse that should be avoided at all costs. To avoid this – before you do anything, ask yourself: am I doing this because I want to do it, or because of my fear of judgment from others if I don’t?

You were born to stand out, to be appreciated and loved for WHO YOU ARE.

Don’t dim your light so you can fit into the dull background of other’s lives. Shine bright as you are. Those who really care for you, will see that light and shine with you.

3. Limiting Beliefs

Don’t allow yourself to be controlled by your own limiting beliefs. These beliefs may be conscious but most of all they are unconscious.

They may be unconscious limitations that have been conditioned in you from a young age by listening those around you who never reached for their own dream.

Notice your own limited beliefs and tell them to shut up. There is NOTHING you can not do if you believe in YOURSELF.

If you believe, anything is possible. When you change your belief from limited to unlimited, your potential is unlimited.

When you have nothing inside holding you back, there is nothing outside that can hold you back either.

Your entire life will change the very instant you decide to change your mindset. The instant you decide to see everything as a gift. When you decide to see every circumstance and challenge as a blessing rather than a curse, the very instant you become conscious to the fact that everything in life is as it should be.

4. Relationships

It’s a very touchy subject. But if you are always needing another person to be happy, to feel complete then you are one moment away from a breakdown if that person leaves you.

Or you will be unhappy if the relationship you are in is not going well. This is not to suggest to avoid relationships. There is no force on this earth greater than Love and connection.

You just need to develop enough mental strength where you don’t need others to make you happy.

You are just as happy being alone as you are in a relationship.

5. Money

Money controls the majority of humans on the planet. This does not mean you shouldn’t want abundance. It doesn’t also mean, money is evil. We all know what great things we can do with money.

What this means is, do not allow your decisions to be controlled by money. If you are choosing something ONLY on the factor of how much money is involved, you’ve just made the wrong decision.

Instead, you will find that when you follow your heart, and you lead with your intention to serve others, to give your best to others –every single time, when you follow your intuition and truly give your soul, then the money will come. And it will come in far greater amounts than if you simply chase money for the sake of chasing money.

So challenge yourself to live the life you want to live. Free from being controlled by ANYTHING. Find your freedom and LIVE FULLY.